
As I write on this bright Monday morning, I'm sitting here in a training seminar. Fact is, I'm coaching a newbie and he needs to practice. He's presenting up to tuesday lunchtime then I'm taking over for the rest of the week.
Okay, so here I am listening while typing. What's that? I should be concentrating on him full time you say?
Well -- NO actually. One of the skills of coaching is actually letting go. Letting the other person make a few mistakes and learn from them. Just be there to bring them back on track if needed -- and give feedback of course.
You see, children and adults learn by doing, it's hard-wired into our brain. I want him to feel a little nervous, make small errors, have a blank moment every now and then, forget the odd fact or three, and make the ocassional goof.
Every bone in my body is screaming "butt-in, tell hime where he's going wrong, spoon feed him, etc". And end up with a puppet instead of a trainer...
Which brings me to the point of this blog entry.
I'm the wrong side of 60 years old, and at a point in my life where (as a younger man), I expected to be taking it easy...
But the reverse is true -- I'm ON FIRE!!
Even if I'd have just stood on street corners, I'd have absorbed masses of Life-Skills. As it was, I've hoovered up masses of data in the form of:
- KNOWLEDGE
- SKILLS
- EXPERIENCE
The glue that binds our society together in fact...
I promise you -- inside your head -- right now-- is a goldmine of information.
You Will Now Want To Do This...
Grab three sheets of paper and put the headings above at the top of each.